“I’ve never met one of you who didn’t suck. I’ve ever known an HR person who had anything but a mediocre mentality.” - Steve Jobs
- Corporate HR is systematically and inevitably undersourced to cover the entire company with a small number of headcounts
- HR is inescapably over-expected by employees due to the nature of the job
Corporate HR responsibilities resemble somehow to that of an elementary school teacher in two ways; one is that they have to take care of the entire workforce with only a few people and the other is the excess level of expectation from the workers about how HR might help out.
The first point is pretty obvious that the interaction becomes one-to-many in the teacher-student relationship. A teacher has to deal with 30-40 students at the same time, more or less close to the HR to the employees.
Second point is coming from the fact that HR role includes support to the workers in and outside of their workplace, so the sense of dependency to HR somehow develops inside. HR is one of the first places that you go when you run into some sorts of troubles. The HR people are among the first to meet you when you join a new company. And, regardless of whether they can actually do so or not, HR people are willing to help their employees. This nature of HR responsibility reasonably sets high hopes, which does not need explanation to say this is akin to the situation in school.
These two factors are intertwined. On one hand, however deeply the teacher loves his/her student and is willing to use more time and make more effort, those things inevitably get diluted by the number of kids he or she has to take care (it even gets more tricky as values like equality or fairness kicks in). From a student perspective, or in this case we should put our feet in their parents shoes, for them it is their one and only daughter (or son) and they are less concerned with the other classmates. Therefore, obviously there is a huge gap between how much attention they can put into a single subject. On the other hand, it is "school teachers" that the parents are dealing with, and for the parents it is natural to believe that the teachers have chosen this occupation because they love kids, so parents could believe that those teachers should love their children as much as they do. They think that they have a reason to complain when a teacher could not find that another classmate was bullying their daughter, if he or she is a genuine teacher, he or she cannot oversee such an important thing!
I feel like this situation is exactly the same with it of the corporate HR and their employees. If it is not with HR but an ordinary business relationship, for example your counterpart was too busy to take some time with you, then you may adjust your schedule. But HR is about your entire carrier and also your personal life; your transfer, your salary, and your promotion. "But HR just thinks me as one of the hoard of ordinary people!" Take it easy. Will you also think the same way when the c-suite people in your company also treats you like that? Even for them, you should be one of the "hoard of ordinary (if not mediocre) people." So, it seems that there is a tendency of HR matters getting more emotional than other conventional businesses.
These problems are structural and difficult to solve, but it could be important not to raise the stakes too high and just say, "basically you have to take care of yourself." And once he or she comes to meet you nevertheless, you treat him/her good. Managing expectations is also important in a HR situation. Technology and outsourcing should help reduce time consumed for operational stuff and allow using it more as an HR resource for each employee.
It is interesting to see that HR is actually the 3rd best favorite job for the new collage grads in Japan, which I also think that the situation is similar to elementary school. A school teacher is one of the most popular profession that kids would like to become, only because it is the only profession that they know outside of sports. It's only just until you get to know the reality.